Oh Brother Where Art Thou

Mark the day. It only took these squirts nearly 4 months, but they are finally starting to recognize each other. Not only the reaction to another screeching sound, but also I think they are starting to figure out this other gremlin might be hanging around for awhile.

Some of my first thoughts after finding out twin boys were on the way, were of the 6-4-3 double play combination for the 2029 Chicago Cubs. I just assumed they would be in sync and inseparable. When people asked if the two were buddies yet, I just would sort of dodge the question. Truth is, they have been like dogs in a kennel, not really caring about the other caged up poop factory. Now that is all starting to change.

The boys have been getting their bottles on the couch so that we can all stare at one another and talk about the neighborhood girls etc. Finally, after a healthy lunch, Finn looked right at Eliot and burst out laughing. Eliot stopped sucking down his bottle, and just sneered at Finn. His eyes looked Finn up and down, then he went back to his bottle. I'm pretty sure Eliot briefly understood where the other half the milk was going, and didn't like it one bit. I'm pretty sure his upper lip quivered in disgust. Finn got distracted by a zipper and Eliot started plotting an attack. We are thrilled they are interacting some, and the best part is how they show their own personalities with every expression. Unlike grown ups, babies aren't afraid to express what they think, which is exactly what makes them and my brother Chris so entertaining.

To this point, Finn has been that happy-go-lucky goofball that doesn't get too concerned about anything. When he smiles, you wonder if he is trying to bite his own ear. He eats fast and often, has no problem finishing his brothers leftovers, and has earned the nickname, 'slug.' When awake and not eating, he enjoys nuzzling his head into your chest, and staring at you. He is extremely patient. He will stare you down until you finally give in and look over at him, at which point you are greeted by a huge but shy smile.

Eliot has only recently shown his personality because of digestion issues. He is less distracted of late, and has realized that its okay to look at people in the eyes. You don't get the benefit of the doubt with this one, however. He will look around the room with his head jerking every which way, just to make sure there are no surprises. Once relaxed he will look at you. While Finn is eager to laugh and play little games, Eliot will size his opponent up before giving in to that smile that portrays him as an Italian baker. But enjoy it, because the smile won't last long. You are not the adult care-giver, but only his equal that has been allowed to take part in his day.


I can't wait until they are 5. "Hey Finn, you go hide and I'll count to 20 and come find you." Poor Finn, at least bring the dog with you.